Is she cheating
Take this quiz to find out if she’s cheating
You love your girlfriend and you are committed to her and your relationship with her. She seems so perfect in so many ways…beautiful, smart, successful, not the jealous type, talented in bed. All great stuff that would draw any man in. Sometimes though, you can’t help feeling that she may not be as into it as you. Life in the bedroom is great, but you sense some sort of distance you can’t quite put your finger on. It almost feels, at times, like she is simply appeasing you until the next “better opportunity” comes along. Afterall, it’s been shown repeatedly that though women are often credited with being the more romantic of the two sexes, what they are really after is security, ensuring their own bottom line, and establishing and maintaining a lifestyle they believe they are entitled to.
Sound familiar guys? It should because this is what’s at the deepest core of the female psyche in any relationship though 99 out of 100 of them would never admit to being that shallow, vapid, and materialistic. There are, of course, degrees of this like there are with anything else, but it is there in some form I guarantee you. So, how can you know if she’s just stringing you along, cheating on you when it’s convenient, and on the prowl for the next best thing? In these situations, it’s normal to start to wonder if she is cheating. Conversely, on the other side, women start to wonder about their man and think he is cheating, but we won’t refer to that side for now. Sure, they want the excitement, spontaneity, and romance too, but not before they’ve looked out for number one and secured the future in some way. Sad but true fellas, and something we have to live with if we want a woman in our lives. But not the cheating for God’s sake! Find out if she’s got a boy toy on the side with this affair quiz.
3 Cheating Questions to Ask Yourself to Reveal Her Affair
Has she started going out with her girlfriends a lot, coming home tipsy or drunk, looking a little disheveled, and uninterested in getting it on that night despite the fact that a few drinks usually stokes her sexual fire? I’ve seen this one first hand and tried hard to ignore the connotations of it because it was more than a girlfriend, it was my wife. It was heartbreaking but I knew what it meant. She’d already had her thrills for the evening and had no further need of stimulation.
Has she become less and less available via phone and text lately? I know this is one that way too many people needlessly panic about on a regular basis, because they are so insecure, if it takes more than 60 seconds for them to hear back from their significant other on a text chat, they assume the worst. This is not what I’m talking about. I mean a consistent, prolonged change to established patterns of communication between the two of you that stands out as a 600 pound gorilla in the room. And she always seems to have some reason or excuse at the ready for this when you ask her about it.
Last, and this is my favorite one (also one I’ve experienced firsthand), has she come up with a ridiculous new go-to angry response every time you have a disagreement, argument, or misunderstanding? One that sounds something like this: “Well, if that’s how you feel, I think we should start seeing other people”. “Well, fine” you think, “if you’re going to pack your stuff and go, you can see all the other people you want”. But she does not do this. She shows no signs of wanting to leave, and by the next day is acting almost as if nothing has happened and she hasn’t spoken these ridiculous words. Things go back as they were but she seems a little more distant, not as quick to engage in any type of discussion, let alone an argument. I’ve got news for you friend. She’s secretly taken the step and IS “seeing other people”. She wants her cake and she wants to eat it too. Security and stability but with a side of excitement and sexual adventure. Are they cheating on you? Well, it’s up to you to find out.